Who God Says You Are As A Woman (Part 3): You Are Stronger Than You Think – The Heart of a Proverbs 31 Woman

Who God Says You Are As A Woman (Part 3)

You Are Stronger Than You Think – The Heart of a Proverbs 31 Woman

Hi sweet friend,

When you hear “Proverbs 31 woman,” what comes to mind?

Maybe you feel inspired…
Or maybe—if we’re honest—you feel a little overwhelmed.

She’s described as wise, hardworking, gracious, fearless, generous, respected, capable, joyful, and deeply rooted in God.

And if you’ve ever read that passage and thought, “That sounds amazing… but also exhausting,” you’re not alone.

But here’s what I want to gently remind your heart:

The Proverbs 31 woman isn’t a checklist. She’s a portrait.
A picture of what a life anchored in God’s truth can look like—over time, in layers, with grace.

It’s not about perfection. It’s about progress, presence, and purpose.

And yes, sister—you already carry so much of her strength within you.

You Are Clothed with Strength and Dignity

📖 “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” — Proverbs 31:25

This isn’t about outer strength. It’s an inner fortitude—the kind that holds steady when the world feels heavy.

You don’t need to power through everything alone.
You don’t need to wear a brave face while breaking underneath.

Real strength isn’t about holding it all together. It’s about being held—by the God who never lets go.

That’s the kind of strength the Proverbs 31 woman has.

And it’s the kind of strength you have access to, too.

She Laughs Without Fear of the Future

How? Because her life is built on trust, not control.

Not because she knows how everything will turn out.
But because she knows the One who holds every outcome.

She doesn’t fake her peace—she chooses it.
And when fear tries to rise, she meets it with faith and joy, not because life is easy, but because God is faithful.

📖 “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” — Nehemiah 8:10

She Speaks with Wisdom and Kindness

📖 “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” — Proverbs 31:26

Your words carry weight, friend.

In a world of noise and criticism, your voice—anchored in truth, seasoned with grace—is powerful.

You don’t need to speak the loudest to speak with impact.
Sometimes the softest voice is the one that brings peace.

Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your words—especially when you’re tired, frustrated, or tempted to retreat. Even silence, when led by God, can be strength.

She Works Willingly with Her Hands

Whether you’re managing a home, building a business, raising children, serving your church, or simply getting through the week—your work matters.

And it’s not about how much you produce. It’s about who you’re doing it for.

📖 “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord…” — Colossians 3:23

So when you feel like what you do goes unnoticed—know this:
God sees every act of faithfulness. Every hidden sacrifice. Every quiet yes.

Practical Ways to Walk in Proverbs 31 Strength Today

This isn’t about striving—it’s about walking daily in quiet confidence.

Here are a few gentle steps:

1. Start Your Day with God—Before the Noise
Even five minutes in the Word or a whispered prayer while brushing your teeth sets the tone for the day.
Ask God: “Clothe me with strength. Fill me with kindness. Help me trust You more.”

2. Choose Joy in the Middle, Not Just at the End
Joy isn’t only for the breakthrough. It’s for the in-between.
Light a candle. Sing in the kitchen. Text a friend just to say you’re thinking of her. These are small seeds of joy that grow strength.

3. Be Kind to Yourself
The Proverbs 31 woman isn’t busy performing. She’s becoming.
Give yourself grace. You’re not behind—you’re being built up.

4. Use Your Words to Build, Not Break
Send a note of encouragement. Bless your kids or your coworkers. Speak truth over yourself in the mirror.
Your words can shift atmospheres—starting with your own heart.

Journal Prompt: What Does Strength Look Like for Me Right Now?

Ask yourself:

• Where am I already showing up with quiet strength?

• What fears can I hand over to God today?

• How is God inviting me to live with dignity, joy, and kindness this week?

Then write something like this prayer:

Lord, thank You that true strength doesn’t come from perfection, but from Your presence. Make me strong in the way only You can—grounded in joy, full of grace, steady in faith. Help me walk with wisdom and speak with kindness. Let my life reflect Your heart—not just in what I do, but in who I am. Amen.

From My Heart to Yours

Sister, you don’t have to prove your strength. It’s already yours in Christ.

You don’t have to live up to the image of a “perfect woman.” You were made to live into the image of God. Just keep leaning into Jesus. Keep breathing. Keep believing that you are stronger—not because of your willpower, but because of His Spirit living in you.

📖 “The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you.” — Romans 8:11

So here’s your gentle reminder:

You are not fragile.
You are not forgotten.
You are a woman of strength, even on the days you feel small.

The Proverbs 31 woman? She isn’t some distant ideal. She’s a reminder of who you’re becoming, day by day, in the hands of a faithful God.

So keep going.
Keep growing.
Keep standing in the quiet, unshakable truth:

You are stronger than you think.
And you are exactly who God designed you to be.

Thank you for walking through this series with me. If you missed the first two, go back and revisit:

• Part 1: You Are Chosen, Not Chasing

• Part 2: You Are Made with Purpose

I pray this journey has spoken life to your soul and reminded you of who you truly are.

If this series spoke to your heart, I’d love to know. Drop a comment, share it with a friend, or let me know how I can pray for you.

Next time, we’ll begin a new 3-part series on Speaking Life: What You Say to Yourself Matters. A 3-Part Series to Help You Shift from Inner Criticism to God-Spoken Truth.

Join me Sunday, Tuesday, and Thursday as we walk through this series together. I pray it speaks life into your heart and reminds you just how deeply known and beautifully made you are.

You are seen, known, and deeply loved.

You’re not just welcomed here—you’re wanted here. And you’re never walking alone.

With all my heart,
Ashley Lynn Lord 💛